How to Be More Likable and Impressive | Vanessa Van Edwards (Replay)

This week’s guest on Women of Impact is Vanessa Van Edwards. Vanessa Van Edwards is a behavioral investigator, speaker and the national best-selling author of Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People. In this episode, she talks about how to set boundaries, how to be more likable, and how to talk to people at parties. [Original air date: 4-17-19]. SHOW NOTES: Tips for feeling less awkward at any event [03:08] Why you should never "fake it til you make it" [07:14] What to do when you feel anxious [11:17] Why sharing your falls makes you more likable [15:34] What makes people popular vs unpopular? [18:33] A mental hack to get other people to impress you [21:13] How to actually connect with people using 'hot buttons' [24:16] Why saying no is harder for women than it is for men [26:15] How to re-evaluate career motivation after having children [32:27] Weighing the highs and lows of life after having children [38:28] Why all of your relationships follow the same pattern [44:09] Why knowing your love language can improve your relationships [47:32] The power of "fill in the blank wishes" [50:34] FOLLOW VANESSA: WEBSITE: https://bit.ly/2SahZTF INSTAGRAM: https://bit.ly/28MKLDf FACEBOOK: https://bit.ly/2IumPL9 TWITTER: https://bit.ly/2UHFxVS YOUTUBE: https://bit.ly/2uLGzTb SPONSORS: If you purchase an item using these affiliate links, Impact Theory may receive a commission. Turn back the clock on your skin with OneSkin and save 15% on your order at https://oneskin.co  when you use the code WOI. ButcherBox is offering our listeners their choice of meat—2 lbs of ground beef, 3 lbs of chicken breasts, or 2 lbs of salmon—for free in every order for a whole year! Plus, get $20 off your first order. Sign up today at https://butcherbox.com/woi Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa now to grow your business–no matter what stage you’re in. Take charge of your fitness and go to https://tryfuture.co/WOI to get 50% off your first month. Let Aura handle your online safety by going to https://aura.com/WOI and start your free 2-week trial. Go to https://tryviome.com/LISA and use code LISA to get 20% off your first 3 months, and take control of your gut health today! Try AG1 and get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase by going to https://drinkAG1.com/lisa. ***CALLING ALL BADASSES!*** If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be!  *New episodes delivered ad-free, EXCLUSIVE access to hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, and so much more!* Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! *****Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP***** Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices