Why am I still Attracting This? When you thought you outgrew it—but the pattern shows up again…

You’ve done the work. You’ve cried the tears, read the books, maybe even taken the courses. You know your patterns. You’ve said no to the toxic ones, sworn off the avoidants, and promised yourself: Never again. And then… it happens again. You meet someone. He’s charming. He sees you. There’s chemistry. And somewhere deep in your gut, it feels like a homecoming. But before long, it starts to unravel. You realize you’re bending. Shrinking. Questioning yourself. And you’re back in something that feels hauntingly familiar. This episode is for the woman who thought she was past this. Who’s asking herself: – Why am I still attracting this? – What am I missing? – How did I not see this coming? I’ll show you why your self-trust might not be broken at all—and how attracting a familiar pattern isn’t always a sign of failure. In fact, it might mean you’re finally ready to break it. This isn’t about blame. This is about clarity, compassion, and claiming your power—again.