105: The Porn Trap: Why Pain, Not Pleasure, Keeps You Addicted (with Chandler Rogers)

If you’ve ever felt like your porn addiction makes no sense—like you’re a good man, doing your best, yet you keep falling into the same cycle—this episode will hit home. In today’s conversation, I sit down with Chandler Rogers, founder of the Relay app, to unpack why it’s not actually pleasure that keeps you stuck in the addiction cycle… it’s pain. Specifically, it’s the pain you haven’t been taught how to face. We talk about the hidden wounds driving sexual compulsion, the parts of you that ...