Establishing New Patterns in Relationships with Courtney Burg (EP310)

In this episode, Diane interviews Courtney Burg about her book, 'Loyal to a Fault: How to Establish New Patterns When Loving Others Has Left You Hurting.' Courtney shares her personal journey of overcoming codependency and establishing healthier patterns of behavior. She discusses the importance of assessing past experiences and taking inventory of inherited patterns. Courtney also emphasizes the significance of setting boundaries and the fear and challenges that come with it. People pleasing, complaining, and exhaustion may be the norm, but at any moment you can choose to do things differently and today's episode is a great place to start.TAKEAWAYSAssessing past experiences and taking inventory of inherited patterns is crucial for personal growth.Setting boundaries can be challenging due to the fear of disappointing others and the desire for connection.Repeating behaviors from the past is common, but it is possible to break free from unhealthy patterns.Choosing the pain of change and embracing growth can lead to healthier relationships and personal fulfillment.------------------------------Links Discussed in This EpisodeOrder a Copy of Minimalist Moms: Living and Parenting with SimplicitySubstack: Minimalist Moms PodcastBook: Codependent No More: How to Stop Controlling Others and Start Caring for Yourself by Melody BeattieStauf's Seasonal Flavored CoffeeConnect with Courtney:Book: Loyal to a Fault: How to Establish New Patterns When Loving Others Has Left You Hurting by Courtney BurgWebsiteInstagramEnjoy this Podcast?Post a review and share it! If you enjoyed tuning into this podcast, then do not hesitate to write a review. You can also share this with your fellow mothers so that they can be inspired to think more and do with less. Order (or review) my book, Minimalist Moms: Living & Parenting With SimplicityQuestions? You can contact me through my website, find me on Instagram, or like The Minimalist Moms Page on Facebook.Thanks for listening! For more updates and episodes, visit the website. You may also tune in on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, or Stitcher.Checkout the Minimalist Moms Podcast storefront for recommendations from Diane.If you enjoyed today’s episode of the Minimalist Moms Podcast, then hit subscribe and share it with your friends!Episode Sponsors |The Minimalist Moms Podcast would not be possible without the support of weekly sponsors. Choosing brands that I believe in is important to me. I only want to recommend brands that I believe may help you in your daily life. As always, never feel pressured into buying anything. Remember: if you don't need it, it's not a good deal!Aim7 | For a limited time, you can try AIM7 for free for 7-days and then pay just $1 for your first month by using the code MINAIM7 (all caps), on their website. Please use the link in the show notes, as this special code only works on their site: https://link.aim7.com/aim7workoutsFactor | Head to FactorMeals.com/momminimalist50 and use code MOMMINIMALIST50 to get 50% off.Our Sponsors:* Check out ByHeart and use my code MINIMALIST for a great deal: byheart.com* Check out Palmstreet: https://i.palmstreet.app/tjja/minimalist* Give Armoire a try and get up to 50% off their first month, that’s up to $125 OFF! Just visit armoire.style/MINIMALIST.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/minimalist-moms-podcast2093/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands