Sex, Grief & Pleasure (ft. Laura Desirée)

Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) sits down with Laura Desirée — absolute stranger, intimacy coordinator and pleasure educator — for an unforgettable conversation about how sex, grief, and shame shape our identities.In this episode, we dive into:What intimacy coordinators actually do on film sets and why they make sex scenes better, not worseWhy Hollywood has failed at portraying female pleasure and how it should look insteadThe messy overlap of grief and sex and how pleasure can become healingThe role of kink in teaching care, communication, and boundariesLaura’s experience as an identical twin and how sex became her path to self-discoveryOwning shame, embracing vulnerability, and why our “messiest” moments can make us closer to othersA hilariously human story of intimacy, trust, and… running out of toilet paperLaura’s raw honesty and fearless approach to sex and pleasure will make you rethink how you see intimacy, on screen and in your own life.✨ For more uncensored conversations, bonus clips, and behind-the-scenes stories, join me on Patreon.