I care too much what people think, and the “what are we” question when dating

“The thing that no one tells you is that the magic begins after you give up. This can happen sometime in your twenties or thirties. It depends on how long it takes for life to exhaust you with its restrictions and rules. You just give up your pretenses, you give up caring about what other people think, you give up impressing others, you give up saying yes to things that are really a no. You give up playing the game. You shed layer after layer of other people's influences. You give it all up willingly and underneath all that you find yourself. The self that is now free. And you finally discover that's all you ever needed to be happy.” And even more exciting, I am partnered with NA-KD to bring you this new season, and you can use code GIRLYWHIRLY for 20% off until Dec 5th (excluding sales) at https://www.na-kd.com/en  Stay tuned for such exciting things to come, and you can send your questions/dilemmas to [email protected] xxx